Care Management Blog

When ice cream is better than salad

When ice cream is better than salad

August 7, 2023

Whether it’s a bowl of soup or a bag of groceries, providing food is how we show our love. And when a relative has a serious illness, it’s natural to want them to eat a healthy diet. Many chronic conditions respond well to specialized diets. Diabetes and heart disease, for instance, can be managed very…

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What is "healthy selfishness"?

What is “healthy selfishness”?

July 31, 2023

As a rule, family caregivers are generous. They tend to be empathetic and to want to help. But it is possible to be too generous, with a tendency to sacrifice one’s own needs for the benefit of others. Sound familiar? This is called “pathologic altruism.” People who feel compelled to give despite risks to themselves…

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Dementia: Packing for a trip

Dementia: Packing for a trip

July 24, 2023

A trip. Sounds like fun! And, it’s more challenging when you travel with a companion who has dementia. But with forethought and planning, you can avoid or readily address common problems. Things to do a few weeks ahead Packing Are you preparing for a trip? We can help! Give us a call at 301-593-5285. As…

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Bringing the hospital home

Bringing the hospital home

July 17, 2023

Suppose you bring your frail loved one or a relative with dementia to the ER because of trouble breathing. The doctors determine it is pneumonia caused by bits of food being swallowed into the lungs. Rather than stay in the hospital, they suggest your relative use the Hospital at Home (HAH) program. With HAH, your…

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Senior bullying and exclusion

Senior bullying and exclusion

July 10, 2023

About 20% of seniors living in communal settings experience bullying in one form or another. Cliques and power hierarchies seem to be a human tendency. If your loved one is the focus of bullying, you might notice withdrawal from others or depressed mood. Or you might hear them say that a particular person is “mean”…

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Meaningful end of life conversations

Meaningful end of life conversations

July 3, 2023

Hollywood would have us believe that profound deathbed conversations occur just before the last breath is drawn. Not so! The last few weeks of a person’s life are often marked by extreme fatigue, long hours of sleep, and sometimes distracting levels of pain. Conversations require too much energy. If someone you care about has been…

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Preparing for a heat wave

Preparing for a heat wave

June 26, 2023

Make sure your loved one is ready to “take the heat” this summer. Older bodies are less able to cope with excessive heat, so it’s important to ensure safeguards are in place. Check in with your relative’s doctor. Certain chronic conditions and medications increase an older adult’s risk of heat stroke. Get advice on optimal…

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Dementia: Is travel realistic?

Dementia: Is travel realistic?

June 19, 2023

If you are considering a trip with your loved one this summer, do yourself a favor and reflect on the realities of travel when a person has dementia. The disease is likely to be a prominent third guest in your plans, requiring consideration every step of the way. The disruption may make this less of…

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What is "elder abuse"?

What is “elder abuse”?

June 12, 2023

Exploitation of older adults is an issue none of us likes to think about. But it’s a growing problem. One in 10 Americans age 60 or older has experienced some form of elder abuse. It is estimated that up to 5 million elders are abused each year. Elder abuse includes intentional acts of malice. Also,…

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